What Not to Do When You Find Out Your Spouse is Cheating is a good article containing great advice and guidance for people who have discovered that their spouse is having an affair. It is well worth the read. However, one very important “don’t” not included on the list is, don’t confront your cheating spouse with your suspicions if your spouse does not know that you know (or suspect) of the affair. Why? Because, if you confront your spouse prematurely, valuable evidence of the affair may disappear and you may ultimately be unable to prove your spouse’s adultery. The best advice for anyone who knows or suspects that their spouse is cheating, is to consult an experienced family law attorney and come up with a plan rather than just confronting a cheating spouse.